I am not a princess. I am a queen. I don't need everything to be about me. In fact, while I like attention to some extent, I really don't want to be fussed over. I don't want to things to be Disney perfect and just magically happen to me. I like to be in control, make decisions, help those I love and reap the benefits of hard work. I remember planning for my wedding everyone being shocked that I wasn't a bridezilla who needed everything be Disney perfect. As far as I'm concerned such ceremonies are as much about friends and family as they are about the couple getting married. It's our connection to others that make things so precious. I would rather earn a thousand dollars than be given it any day.