Dumbest guy I ever dated. This is what happens when you switch from sites like intellectconnect to JDate. He used to make fun of all the "big funny words" I used all the time in conversation. There's nothing wrong with having a small vocabulary. I have one first generation American friend, who when I first met her had about a 5th grader's vocabulary and whenever I had a dinner party spent half the time asking what words meant. Everyone was always really good about answering her questions and today she never has trouble keeping up with a conversation. We all start out ignorant, however people who make no effort at self improvement and actually try to bring other people down to their level of dimness I hold in contempt.